I remember the day I first read this phrase, “…do it scared,” in Holley Gerth’s, “You’re Made for a God-sized Dream.” Since that day, these words have stuck with me over the past 3 years. I have not only recalled them, but have been forced to live by them- in a number of instances. What I was reminded of, is that while it is challenging to try new things, it is always possible when I am willing. Being a “creative autonomous” at heart most of my life, I often got a taste of the fear factor because of my entrepreneurial dreams. Attempting business ventures requires a certain level of trust that is difficult to describe. It is a major faith walk. “Doing it scared” certainly doesn’t feel good, but it is a necessary part of the plan. In fact, it is a requirement if we are to advance, live and thrive. We just have to commit to the process and trust God for the rest. What is the worse that can happen? We can stumble, all out trip…or even worse.. fall! So what though- if that happens. It is not the end of the world. Once we get back up, we can just view it as a new beginning and keep stepping. Seeing it this way, helps put a positive spin on things. We make a decision, walk in it, run… or fall- and when we do, because we are going to hit the ground at times, we get back up and keep going. There is light at the end of the tunnel and fear is just another thing to keep us boxed in. We can’t be our best selves standing in the same position forever. Any successful entrepreneur, accomplished athlete or kid who learned to ride a bike without training wheels, will all agree that the joy on the other side of that fear brings victory. Take it from an introvert and serial entrepreneur, who was once a little girl crazy about her pink Huffy (bike.) Picture me rolling.
What are you scared of today? Don’t allow fear to keep you from your destiny. As Holley wrote- “Do it scared.” Start the business, run the marathon, volunteer overseas, write the book and open that non-profit to help troubled youth. The world needs your gifts and talents. Don’t deprive us of them just because fear is trying to cripple you. You’ll be so happy you did it- even though you were scared.I promise! Know that when I write, I am always talking to myself, too. It’s therapeutic and we are in this thing called life together!
We want to hear from you. Reach out and tell us all about how you refused to let fear win. Peace, blessings and most of all, courage to you. You already have the victory.
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It was the late, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., who once stated, “Faith is taking the first step, even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” As I ponder over this quote, I am confident that there is so much truth in it. Why? ….Because I’ve found that life often calls us to move before we “see” the next set of steps. Though this concept is frightening, it actually aids in our development; by stretching us and helping us to increase our faith. We can’t allow fear and disobedience to hold us back. Since standing still isn’t the answer, what do we do? “Do it scared.” I once read this phrase and something about these words have stuck with me ever since. Doing it scared doesn’t mean we rid ourselves of the fear, but rather that we’ve made a decision to not allow the fright to indefinitely detain us. Thus, we take the leap of faith, knowing that if God has called us to do it, He’s already provided the parachute. Trust God and trust the process. In the book of James, chapter 2, we are told that “Faith without works is dead.” Therefore, we must put our faith into action, having full assurance that God has already worked everything out for our good.
If you are facing a crosswords today, obey the voice of the Lord and know that He Who has called you is faithful, and will do exactly what is needed- to fulfill the plan and purpose that He has for your life. Stepping out is just the move that’s needed to get you to your next place! Obey every detail of the matter and watch what happens next. Have faith!!!
Taking the first step…next leg of the journey continues!
How do you spend most of your days? What activities and/or persons take up most of your time? How different could your life be if you dedicated set amounts of time to the ventures and/or individuals most important to you? Let’s take a closer look at these questions.
If you have a goal in mind, then I’m sure you’d agree that specific steps are necessary to accomplish it. This can of course vary, depending upon the season that you’re in. A goal for one may be to get their little one potty-trained by a set date, while for another, it may be to obtain a promotion before the conclusion of this calendar year. In either case, action is required on the individual’s part if it’s going to transpire. For the person looking to climb the ranks, if your intended goal is to reach the next level within your organization, then you can’t spend your days on frivolous activities when you have down time at the office. Likewise, if this is indeed the desire of your heart, you must also give some thought to the persons who get the bulk of your time. If your days are spent with those who give you all the reasons why you can’t get promoted, then perhaps it’s time you limit your interaction with them. Think about this- What if you spent most of your time on constructive activities, in the presence of those who empower and uplift you? How different would your life be? Certainly you may not be able to change who your manager is presently, or even who you share a work space with, but you can control how you spend the rest of your time!
If you make the decision to organize your days, they will become more purposeful and fulfilling. Additionally, you will find that your activities will become less draining. Imagine that!!! Yes, you will have some days while in pursuit of your dreams that seem tiring, but they will in no way compare to the level of fatigue experienced – when you waste crucial time on meaningless things, with negative people. Establishing order upon the onset of each day can make a noticeable difference. Here are 3 simple steps to help you!
1. Create a set schedule, but be sure to leave gaps for what I like to call, “Life Happenings,” because they are sure to come. These are distractions, problems and issues that arise to take you off course. Learn to manage them, without giving them the power to ruin your day. Deal with them accordingly, adjust, and immediately get back on track- picking up from where you left off.
2. Devise steps to help you get closer to your goals. Make a concerted effort to write them down, and post them where you can see them, or place them where you will come in contact with them daily. Seeing is believing, so be sure to keep them within reach and visible at all times. If this means making them your screen saver on your computer or phone, do just that.
3. Execute! This is always the most important step. Your plans are of no use if you don’t act on them. Get a partner to help hold you accountable, and keep a checklist to follow.
Once you’ve created a plan, considered those who can in some way help bring your dreams to fruition- then you are ready to press the green light. Spend dedicated time with the Lord today, and inquire of Him how you should be spending your days, and with whom. Then, be purposeful in your dealings, so that you can give each day your best!
You decide “who” gets a seat at your table! Choose wisely~